How to Define Life Purpose

Q: I am 35 years old and I still don’t know what my purpose is. I go to an unfulfilled job and I feel stuck. How can I find my purpose?

A: Finding meaning and purpose in this sometimes difficult life can be challenging for many. One thing I like to remind my clients is that we all have various meanings and purposes in life. Some examples of this would be, being a good friend, family member, owner of a pet, caring for an elderly family member, being a good listener to others. As Mother Theresa said, it’s the small acts of love and kindness that are so empowering. What is most important is that we bring our best to everything we do. You say you are in an unfulfilled job. Perhaps ask yourself if you have a passion, what do you like to do? It’s crucial that you do what you love and love what you do, not what you think you should be doing. 

One career choice is no better than another as long as it’s what you love. If you don’t know, you may want to take an inventory such as the Strong-Campbell Interest Inventory to give you some suggestions as to what interests show up for you.

Consulting your intuition will help you find the path that is right for you. Allow your intuition lead you to your own brilliance, you have it within. Stay true to yourself and listen to your heart, not your head. You will find your passion that perhaps you never knew you had. Don’t be afraid to take risks because, without risk, one cannot grow. With taking risks, you are bound to feel more open, energized and feel better about the adventures that lie ahead.

Also, shift your mind-set and focus on all you do have as opposed to what you don’t. Be grateful and give to others what you most desire within yourself. No need to obsess and compare yourself to others. When your heart is in the right place, you will become exactly what you want to be.

While you may have heard the saying, “fake it till you make it,” and have the right intention, you will manifest more than you can even imagine. Give yourself praise for all those baby steps you may take to achieve your wholeness and sense of balance. With this, you will find your true purpose.